There's been much activity around the house. The birthday celebration with my daughter's friends has continued into the first and second day of her 16th year.
I love hearing her voice among the teenage cacophony. It is very reassuring. At least for that moment in time, there is happiness, lightness and a sense of freedom -- all things not always in full force in a teenage's life. I actually find it quite heartwarming.
Except when it goes on for hours. And hours. Yes, and even more hours.
But you know, I noticed that somehow, as draining as I eventually realized it was to me, I found myself quite calm and tolerant through it all. There wasn't the impatience and irritation. Instead, I was able still to focus on what I had to do. I was centered. I felt grounded.
Hmmm, I wonder what that was about?
To me its about letting them have theirs...and remembering...
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