There's been much activity around the house. The birthday celebration with my daughter's friends has continued into the first and second day of her 16th year.I love hearing her voice among the teenage cacophony. It is very reassuring. At least for that moment in time, there is happiness, lightness and a sense of freedom -- all things not always in full force in a teenage's life. I actually find it quite heartwarming.
Except when it goes on for hours. And hours. Yes, and even more hours.
But you know, I noticed that somehow, as draining as I eventually realized it was to me, I found myself quite calm and tolerant through it all. There wasn't the impatience and irritation. Instead, I was able still to focus on what I had to do. I was centered. I felt grounded.
Hmmm, I wonder what that was about?
To me its about letting them have theirs...and remembering...
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